How to grieve?

How do you grieve the loss of a child you may never have? There is nothing in this world to help dull the pain! Some do it in ways that I could never imagine. I don't know how to deal with the everyday things that people talk about when they are pregnant. There was a girl at the salon today talking about all the perks of being pregnant that people who have never experienced infertility take advantage of. They have know idea what is going on in your life and that when they talk about these simple things it makes you want to rip your beating heart from your chest! But they cannot be at fault for that because they don't know the pain that you feel inside. I appreciate peoples concern and their questions about our TTC journey. We welcome your questions! There is no feeling like that of the grieving for something you may never know month after month, drs. appt. after drs. appt. Is there ever a right way? How do you do it and still live a normal life? When you hit dead end after dead end. If anyone has any suggestions please let us know! Please keep us in your prayers we really need them right now.